Every sunrise is a new beginning

Every Sunrise is a new Beginning

Every sunrise is a new beginning. It is for the flower that opens looking to the sun. It is for the birds flying. For the tree that grows freely or for the man who has awakened to a new day. 

It is the same with our lives. Every day is a new beginning.

A new beginning is in:

Failure

Usually, when making mistakes, you see that as something wrong. You see it as an end. Thus, you may be afraid to continue what you were doing. You are afraid of trying something else. In fact, you are afraid of the unknown. However, every time you start again, you step over your fear.

Marriage and birth

Every marriage is a new beginning. Divorce is an end that brings a new beginning in your life. Also, a child brings a new chapter in your life. He will be a good part of your life.

Tragedy

Though, life is neither just about good things nor bad things. It is a mix of both. Bad things happen and always do, but they have their role in just writing pages of your own story. They have their role making us to see a beginning at every end.

No beginning is easy, especially after a tragedy. You do not know what to do, where to walk to, you feel that you do not live the same way. In fact, you won’t do it anymore because what has left your life left a void that needs to be filled. Sometimes you feel that the emptiness is huge and cannot be filled with someone or something else. However, the laws of physics show us that every void is filled with something new. You are the one who can decide who or what will fill that in your life.

Thus, each end is a change that comes in our life. What will fill it is a start as you continue your journey for another chunk of time. In addition, every time, people and things that have the role of guiding you will appear in your way.

Everything new or bad bring a change. Each change means an adaptation to something different. It means going over past, taking with you what was good and learning new things.

Why fear for a new beginning?

To start something new should not mean:

  • Fear that you may be wrong. That means you have to take it all over again. You do not know because you were not taught that you can make mistakes and learn more when making them. Yet, you have to try it again or try something else, for you have to move forward.

You do not have to postpone what you were doing, for nobody else is going to do it for you. Do what you wanted previously. What you live is not a nightmare. Your pain is part of your life. Make your life easier accepting that and do what you feel you have to do!

  • There is also the fear of the unknown. Fear of not knowing what consequences your action may have. You are afraid of the emptiness in your life, although each emptiness is to be filled even if you do not know how and what with, at the time of your mistake or tragedy.

For action, your mind is taught to look for solutions and see with your eyes for believing. It is not easy, but you can learn to follow your soul. Do what you feel, even if you don’t know where that action will take you.

  • At the same time, there is a fear of risk. In addition, you do need to take action. You need to start doing that thing that you’re afraid of, because

“Before Everything Happens,
We Must First Begin.” ― Dragos Bratasanu

Everything is about a new beginning

Coming into this life is a new beginning. Getting walking and talking is another start. It is a new start when moving from kindergarten to school. A new beginning is a transition from the primary school to the gymnasium, then to the high school. Moving to a college, a new job, a marriage or divorce are all new beginnings in your life. And you do them.

I said in an old post that I have worked abroad, so I opted for a new start. When I returned to my country, I ended another chapter of my life and had a new beginning.

I moved from town to village, from a flat to a country house. I used to live using gas and running water. I started using water from my own fountain and setting up a wood-fired oven because I opted for that start. When I moved, I didn’t know how to use the stove. I didn’t know how to cut wood. Now, I cut them using the hand saw and the ax. I didn’t know how to mow the grass, but I can use the scythe when I need to. All because I wanted the change.

Looking around, you can see change all around in nature and can learn from it to have a new beginning.

Every sunrise is a new beginning

The night is an end that brings a new day. It is a new beginning. Nature undresses her clothes in autumn and winter for putting them on again in spring and summer. The new year is an end giving birth to a new beginning.

Every sunrise is a new beginning. It is a new opportunity. 

Each seed means a new beginning. We can choose to wet it and take care of it or let it dry. That seed comes from our soul and desires.

Failure is not the end. The tragedy is not the end. Every end is a new beginning. Everything has a new beginning. We can look at the ashes of dreams or loved ones and cry for as it is an end. Yet, in this end, there is always a new beginning. As Craig D. Lounsbrough says:

“Today’s ashes are tomorrow’s soil.”

It is the soil of new dreams, of new relationships. It is the continuation of life in other places, conditions, with other people, in a different way than we knew before. Actually, being alive means your choice to start again because every sunrise is a new beginning!

With Love,

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Copyright © 2019 manuela@inalove.world

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Do you feel guilty of the way you live or not?

Are you feeling guilty or not guilty?

Where does the blame come from? Are you feeling guilty or not guilty for your life?

We live in a world in which everyone seeks to show that he is right. To show that someone else or others are guilty of what is happening. As Noam Chomsky says: “All over the place, from the popular culture to the propaganda system, there is constant pressure to make people feel that they are helpless.

Where does the blame come from?

Family

Blame starts from childhood when you are innocent and someone else scolds you for your mistakes. Your mother, father, older brothers, relatives are blaming you. But you make mistakes because you don’t know certain things. In that way, many times children are beaten and punished.

Thus, a child brought up in violence can become a more violent man than his parents. Or he will fall to the other extreme when he becomes just the source of satisfying the child’s needs.

School

A child who grows up in guilt will be a shy or rebellious child. There are so many examples of children refusing to go to school. They do not like or find any reason to do so. Why?

The teacher scolds the child for not doing something or doing it wrong. Maybe the child has too much homework, or doesn’t know how to do it. He doesn’t understand or needs more explanation. Maybe he got bored at that time and was looking for something more interesting to do.

Moreover, nowadays, children read, even if they don’t do it with a physical book in their hands, but they read from the Internet, search, get informed. When the opinion of the parent or teacher is the opposite of what the child knows, his or her inner war begins. It happens for he does not find any support in those he knows he should believe in. He knows that he “works” as he can and knows, but those around him are not satisfied with what he does. From here, tears, crises of anger, and from the other side come punishments, withdrawals of promises or unfulfilled promises …

The result will be a child full of guilt, feeling as not being born worthy, full of frustration.

Church

The church makes you feel guilty for being a sinner. That’s why you don’t have what you want, that is the reason for the life you live. In that way, you live in a continuous state of guilt.

In addition, you need to stay on your knees for praying, which ancient cultures knew as a sign of slavery.

Society

The blame goes on and the child has the alternatives of what adults are telling him. Unfortunately, he sees that many of the adults do not respect their word. Then he begins to look for his own alternatives. On the one hand, he becomes a “perfectionist” or a “loser”, addicted to drink, drugs, fights. On the other hand, look for revenge against those around him whom he considers responsible for his inner pain. From here, revenge on parents, teachers and themselves – suicide.

In fact, as an anxious person, you are a person full of fear and guilt. You are a person dissatisfied with the life you live. Also, you will always expect something better, looking to an unknown future. Instead, you do not live what is most important: now.

As an adult, you feel guilty or blame others. It is because you do not have a better job, or a bigger, more beautiful house. It is because of money, car, another marriage. So, there will be guilt, and it will be carried on your shoulders or thrown on somebody else’s.

What can you do for not feeling guilty?

  • Look for your negative emotions to let them go.
  • Do not blame yourself for mistakes, but learn from them.
  • Don’t blame others for what you live.
  • Teach the child that there is no need to feel guilty when he does not know something. No one is born to know everything, but we all can learn.
  • Teach your child not to feel guilty for doing mistakes. Any mistake is a lesson.
  • Do good as many times as you have the opportunity, regardless of whether it is the being next to you or Mother Earth.

Are you feeling guilty or not guilty?

One of the Zamolxis Laws (33) says:

Is there a flower more beautiful than the other? Does exist one stream clearer than the other? Is there one piece of grass better than others? Each one has its strength, beauty, and ability. It is in the nature of things that the forest has different varieties of trees, grass, flowers, and animals. There are not two fingers alike at the same hand, but you need all to beat the iron. Is the left hand better than the right? Does the left eye see in another way than the right one? The above have their meaning and the below ones have their meaning, the big things have their reason and the little ones the same, the fast ones have their reason and the slow ones have them too, the things that have existed had their meaning and those who come will have their meaning, too.”

Therefore, there is no one better than you. Then, are you guilty or not guilty?

You can feel guilty for one thing – of not living your life. As Voltaire says: “Every man is guilty of all the good he did not do.

With Love,

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Copyright © 2019 manuela@inalove.world

you expect you to act

Who do you expect to act for You?

We all gain knowledge and know that “knowledge is power”. Is it or is it not true? Do you expect others to act for you? Then, your knowledge is just potential power. When you are acting, your knowledge becomes your real power.

We all dream and believe in our dreams more or less. Are the dreaming and believing enough? Noel Peebles says “Action is more important than just believing. Don’t just dream about it, don’t just believe you can… go and make it happen. Develop a sense of urgency in your life to make it happen. Take action!” 

Why is important to act?

  • It is a way of making your dreams come true
  • Your dream makes you be the real YOU 
  • Those dreams make you feel alive, for you do what your dream 
  • Nobody will act for you
  • You change your thoughts
  • Acting, you feel you are born being worthy
  • You believe in yourself without expecting other’s opinions about you, and your results and your actions become a bridge between you and your creation.

Moreover, “Your persistent actions are the bridge between mind and matter, between the inner and the outer. Do what you are called to do. Do it with grit, do it with courage, do it with boldness and faith, and do it every day for the rest of your life.”― Dragos Bratasanu 

Why do you need Courage?

I have heard and used myself the following words many times: I will start going after my wish when I am …, I have, … I know from my experience that it is not easier to start new things. You may feel afraid of so many things. You even can feel punished by losing money, friends, family, and your home. Unfortunately, people around you will try to stop you from changing yourself because you will no longer be a part of the crowd.  It is the way we are educated. We are told to repress our feelings and dreams, for we cannot succeed in what we want. Actually, all repressing leads to anxiety and depression.

Besides, there could be an idea that you cannot leave what you have for something unknown. Something that you do not yet know if it will work for you. It is what you know. It is your fear of not being able to follow your heart.

To overcome all your fears you have to step over them. You have to believe in yourself and follow your heart. It is your coffer of treasure with well-hidden wishes and dreams. Also, it shows you the map you have to follow for taking action.

When should you expect to take action? 

Contrary to all fears, your heart knows that everything can be possible. It does not need someone else’s opinion or a pile of money to know that you can do what you want, and you can start right now.

Trying to wait for the right moment and the right move, it can be too late for it, or it may never happen. Therefore, now it is time to begin what you want, whether you are ready or not. Every moment brings something new in your life. That new changes your being in every moment.

Nobody can tell you when the right moment is for something you want. You know it for you can feel it. You are not only older but wiser with every moment of your life. 

 Do not be afraid of using every moment of your life for what you want. Take action now, every day for the rest of your life!

My answer to the question above will be “take action right now”. That “now” is all we have and “Today is all that matters. Today you hold a hundred years in your hand.” (Dr. Quinn – The Medicine Woman)

Who do you expect to act for you? 

Waiting for another time and someone else’s approval, you feel you are not worthy. You do what you do for some results expected by others, but not by you. Just look inside yourself to see what you wish and follow your path.

Do not expect anybody to do what you do not do.  What you do not change for yourself, no one will do it. You have to do your part. As Jim Kwik says “If knowing is half the battle, the action is the second half of the battle.”

Act for yourself, for you will live with no regrets. Moreover, ”When you leave this world the only things you take with you are the things that you have stored in Your heart.” and your dreams are stored in.

The One who you were waiting for is You. You should expect no one to act for you. You should expect you to act for you!

With Love,

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Copyright © 2019 manuela@inalove.world

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