by Vera Ingeborg
Jun 26, 2017
Note: This article is written out of the “Goddess-Perspective”. By no means it wants to ignore the “God-Perspective”, as they are two sides of the same coin. This article is just as true for Gods, and merely has to be turned around in terms of the traits of the energies mentioned.
We read a lot about the return of the Goddesses and that a new astrological era, the Age of Aquarius, has begun. So naturally, we have all been busy with learning the way of the healthy feminine, being compassionate, introspected, feeling, intuitive, patient, receptive and creative. We learned the quality of being. But… this is only one side of the equation, and living in full wholeness is only possible, when we Yin and Yang, Shiva and Shakti, the Feminine and the Masculine are fully balanced within.
How would it be possible to live a fully balanced and whole life without the masculine traits that are complementing our feminine qualities? And this is not about getting this balance from outside – for example from our Divine partner – no, this is finding this healthy balance of the Divine Feminine and the Divine Masculine within. If we still look for something outside of us to balance ourselves – this is the very clear mirror showing us, what we still lack energetically, and what we need to learn to create for ourselves. Only then, we are able to share our wholeness with others, be it with friends, family or a partner. Only then, we don’t feel attached, needy or dependent anymore. Only then, as Osho says, all of our relationships become a relatedness.
“Only then, all of our relationships become a relatedness. We relate, but we don’t create a contract or agreement, as there is no more fear or lack involved. And thus, there cannot be any more pain. Then, we stand individually, and are brigded by love.” Osho
We relate, but we don’t create a contract or agreement, as there is no more fear or lack involved. And thus, there cannot be any more pain. Then we stand individually, and are bridged by love. Then our connections become easy and natural. Then there is no more pressure, and no more wish to control or change things. Because we no longer seek anything outside of us any longer. Then we don’t know any longer how to create drama, because we have moved beyond human conditioning. We don’t expect anything any longer from others, because we carry it all within.
Being in the Flow – means Being and Doing
When we are talking about “being in the flow”, we need both energies. While the feminine is the intuitive, creative part, initiating the flow, the masculine is putting it into the flow and keeps it going. If we only operate within the feminine energy, nothing gets ever done. We have wonderful, amazing ideas, but we are not able to get them on the road. We lack focus and determination. The feminine energy is the swirly, curly energy that covers a wide range and plants a lot of seeds. The masculine energy is a straight lined, forward moving energy. It focuses on fostering chosen seeds, watering them, and making them come to fruition. Of course not every seed will make it! That is the nature of things, and nothing to be disappointed about! The masculine gives, without expecting anything in return. The female then comes back into play to receive the fruits of this labour.
“Only when we fully honour and integrate both of these energies, we feel whole and feel everything is flowing effortlessly.”
Out of these, new ideas and intentions flow and new seeds are planted. This is how this perfect dance of the masculine and feminine energy works. And only when we fully honour and integrate both of these energies, we feel whole and feel everything flows effortlessly. That is what a Goddess is. She has reached this perfect balance within, and has fully embodied it into her physical presence. And she is sharing it with the world, while continuously moving through new layers and integrating more light.
So what are the Masculine Parts we need to integrate?
What does it truly mean to have the Divine Masculine traits. We often tend to mistake the masculine with the misprogrammed traits we learned in the Third Dimensional Reality to be male such as control, aggression, fighting etc., going into perpetrator mentality. These have nothing to do with the balanced divine masculine, and are only possible when there is an excess of the masculine energy, not being balanced with the female. This is of course also true the other way around. If there is excess female energy, we drop into patterns of martyrdom, neediness, wallowing – going into victim mentality. So obviously, these two energies need each other, and when they enter their perfect Divine dance, that is when we feel truly home and whole from within. When we feel joy, playfulness and ease.
“We need to allow our inner Divine Masculine to move forward with courage and dedication. We need focus and the brilliant ideas of the conscious mind, how to put the vague, emotional intentions of the feminine into action!”
We need to allow our inner Divine Masculine to move forward with courage and dedication. We need focus and the brilliant ideas of the conscious mind, how to put the vague, emotional intentions of the feminine into action! We need the self-esteem and the methodic thoughts to plan and make things happen. That does not mean developing rigid routines, and sticking to them by all means, but it means to give the intentions a flexible structure to flourish in, and checking back in and giving it a push when it is needed, to then let go again to let the energy unfold.
Honestly… How many of us felt stuck with our missions, and that somehow things were not moving the way we wanted it to? And how obvious does it become if we realize that we had been focused on the being, the patience and the receiving only? How should we receive anything for our work, if we make it about receiving only? Isn’t it much more about the bravery to share ourselves with the world first, and giving freely from the heart to support others, so that then we are open and able to receive in return?
“When we reach true balance within, then co-creation with others gets a whole different quality. Then we truly start creating “New Earth”, a world based on oneness and unconditional love. And… unconditional love we can only give and receive and fully embody, when we have reached the yin/yang balance within.”
When we reach true balance within, then co-creation with others gets a whole different quality. Then we truly start creating “New Earth”, a world based on oneness and unconditional love. And… unconditional love we can only give and receive and fully embody, when we have reached the yin/yang balance within.